The Holiday Grumps

Let's be honest—not everyone is filled with holiday cheer when December rolls around. And that's perfectly okay.

Whether it's the pressure to be perpetually joyful, the endless shopping lists, the forced family gatherings, or just the sheer exhaustion of it all, the holidays can bring out the grump in even the most cheerful among us.

You're Not Alone

If you're feeling more 'bah humbug' than 'ho ho ho' this season, you're in good company. The holiday grumps are real, and they're valid. The constant bombardment of picture-perfect celebrations on social media, the financial strain, the disruption to routines—it's a lot.

Permission to Feel What You Feel

Here's your reminder: you don't have to love every moment of the holiday season. You don't have to attend every party, bake every cookie, or plaster on a smile when you're feeling overwhelmed. It's okay to set boundaries, say no, and protect your peace.

Finding Your Own Way

Maybe your version of the holidays looks different—quieter, simpler, more intentional. Maybe it's about finding moments of genuine gratitude rather than manufactured joy. Maybe it's about extending grace to yourself when everything feels like too much.

The truth is, the most meaningful celebrations often come when we stop trying to meet everyone else's expectations and start honoring what actually brings us peace and joy—even if that looks different from the holiday cards.

A Little Grace Goes a Long Way

So if you're feeling grumpy this season, take a deep breath. You're human. The holidays will pass, and in the meantime, do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Sometimes the most faithful thing we can do is simply be honest about where we are.

And remember—even the grumps are loved, valued, and worthy of rest.